Read: Is he serious about you? There are so many good bands out there now, and there are so many different styles and genres to choose from…music can bring about endless possibilities! You can also pay attention to communication patterns. Remember, each of these questions is a kick-starter; you get the conversation going and then see where it takes you! Hopefully these questions will help. What is the coolest flag in use? This question is less about how other people view your boyfriend and more about how they view themselves. What is the strongest animal you could win against with just your bare hands and feet? What are you a non-military veteran of? If wars were abolished, what would be the most interesting way for countries to settle their differences? Just remember to try not to be too judgmental. If he doesn't think you're important, maybe it's time to find someone who does.
What do you fear about the future? Will mom work and dad stay home or the other way around? What do you want to be written on your tombstone? The last thing you want is someone who isn't on board with this. That could lead to awkward silences or just a plain bad impression. Below are some things you want to watch out for, relationship red flags. Which reason do you think makes most sense to you, as you know him better than we do? Whatever it is, you're sure to learn something. Offering the guy some insights and opportunities is not only a great way to get him talking. If he's a new boyfriend, asking fun him, is a good start. What would an amusement park designed specifically to make you happy, be like? Maybe your partner is a smoker and doesn't want to quit but you want him to -- any kind of bad habit could cause issues down the line.
There are tons of things to talk about, and you can find many topics discussed on here on Quora. Make a conscious effort to look at your boyfriend from a distance, like you were someone else looking at him and how he acts. If could be the first person to do something, what would your achievement be? Touching upon these topics is important, but only delve deep if it is a situation you know you will be facing. What would you do and What if scenarios are always a fun thing to discuss, as long as they are kept light hearted. Example from a time when we were allowed to text each other.
It will only make things worse. And we need to remember that we are the most important person to take care of. Having the face to face contact in addition to the conversation can make it seem like you guys are right in the room together. And getting to know each other really well starts with asking the right questions! He should be your biggest advocate when it's go time, and he may even need to take prenatal classes with you. So you're having trouble knowing what to talk about with your boyfriend.
Also, if he is hard on himself about a lot of things, it probably means he is more driven to succeed. If either of those things begins to happen, it's time to set some boundaries — stat! If you could make a candle with any scent, what type of scented candle would you make? If he is one to be overwhelmed by emotions, send out an e-mail. According to best-selling author and relationship expert , the way to know if your communication is healthy is if it's actually working. Relationship questions to ask your boyfriend What does a day in the life of a couple with a super healthy relationship look like? This can lead to fun, entertaining questions when you're both already in a good mood. If the answer to any of those questions is no, then you need to work on your communication styles and frequency.
And you can also see how much he is willing to stand up to that person or group. You can see what really chokes them up. I think now is the time to apologise and let the guilt and worry and burden of those lies roll of your shoulders. My mind wandered to wondering what he was doing. Question 8: What habits do you have that annoy other people? This is a fun question that can lead to some great answers. Talk to Your Boyfriend Like He's Your Friend From casual matters to more serious subjects, choose conversation topics that build your relationship.
I would recommend sending what you've just written to whatever email or social media he hasn't blocked you from, adding: if things don't improve, you need to end your relationship with him. See movies, try an escape room, play laser tag, you two decide. So maybe that great conversation didn't impress him all that much anyway. In what situations do you act least like yourself? Its very common that you loose words or topic to discuss. What are you really obsessed about? Tell him about a favorite aunt or that crazy road trip you took with your grandmother.
What did you do in the past that people keep bringing up over and over and over again? No matter what, talk about it now. What game have you put the most hours into? Like how I loved the new latte macchiato from Starbucks and he needed to try it. If when you died, you got put into a room for eternity with people who died the same way, how would you want to die? Now 22, I start every day with two things: A cup of coffee and a good morning text from Nick. You should consider your general happiness in the relationship. Who or what is holding you back? You'll find that by doing this, you'll have a better understanding of him and the person he is today. When was a time you threw caution to the wind and just went for it? What other things you would add to the list? Obviously I was upset and irritated during our conversation. Comic books The world of graphic novels and comics is pretty much unlimited and you can talk about anything at all, from Batman to Chobits.