We were both quite content after we came, but we mutually decided that we were really in different places sexually. Since I was so nervous, I insisted that we take plenty of time, take the whole afternoon if we needed it, and build up very, very gradually. Try having the buttplug put in before you start the scene, while you're still relaxed; that way, no matter how wound-up you get, your asshole will pretty much stay open and accessible for whatever fun and games your top may come up with later. You'd think they'd invented it. Then I felt a hand land gently on my knee and slowly start working its way up the inside of my thigh. I motioned with my ass in a way that suggested I was ready. Idk why it just instantly makes me uncomfortable.
Suffice it to say that I was successful. By this time we seemed to sense each others growing desires and the intensity of our fucking began to pickup in response. See buttfucking: similarities to fisting, preceding paragraph. My lover sensed something or perhaps I moaned, so he stopped to allowed me to relax. In order for it to work at all, you've got to let your butt muscles get seriously loose. Nov 28, 2011 by 250 points Analsex is neither dirty nor embarrassing.
My whole body was buzzing with anticipation. I've heard several otherwise intelligent and sexually aware women both queer and het talk about buttfucking as something that gullible straight women put up with to please their men. He probably wants to get fucked somehow but doesn't like sex toys. I slowly dismounted and then finished him off with a passionate blow job. I began to caress my lovers chest and work my ass to complement his motions.
My lover groaned with pleasure, pressed his cock firmly inside of me. Permission isn't impossible to get -- I'm a nice person, andchances are good that if you ask nicely, I'll give it to you. I felt that incredibly intense sensation that I had felt the first time I had anal sex. I have been with a few straight identified guys the last few years who liked to get fucked. I spent some time getting his penis thoroughly lubed up and, then I scooted forward so I could position myself better over his penis. Since there's no particular misguided image about women who fuck other people in the ass, there's nothing for me to get on my high horse about. I realize that that's a little unbalanced.
Fucking someone in the ass is typically seen as a dick thing, straight men's fantasy and gay men's territory and nothing to do with women at all. This little get up was a real turn on for me. For my first meeting with my soon to be lover, I wanted to put on an outward appearance that would help define our sexual roles. Personally, I define a person's sexuality based one who the person finds themself sexually attracted to. If you approach getting assfucked like you're training for a marathon, you're going to wind up with an extremely sore asshole. He seems to be able to just recognise that it is a totally sexual thing and he has no interest in ever having a relationship with anybody but a woman and has nothing in common with gay guys other than getting fucked which totally gets him off.
The feeling made me eager to have my lover's cock inside of me. I kind of fell into a bit of a trance as I rocked over my partner. With each gyration I could feel my lovers cock thrusting inward and then retreating, inward and then retreating, inward and then retreating. My lover slid his hands underneath my top. I even had to stop the second time because I was very certain that I was about to shit all over myself and my partner.
Warm fuzzy tingling feelings radiated from inside of me, down my thighs, up my back, across my belly. I could tell that if we continued I would have an orgasm. Many of the pleasures of buttfucking that I've been describing--relaxation, extreme sensitivity, surrender, nastiness, attentiveness to the here and now--can be as much fun from the top as they are from the bottom. I'll be calm and rational and sensitive and just talk to you about buttfucking. My lover then motioned to me that we were moving on.
It's much more fun to talk about why. One finger, very gently, lots of lube; then two fingers, very slowly, very gently, lots and lots of lube; then three fingers, very slowly, very gently, lots and lots and lots of lube; and then, oh my God, that's it, it's going in; no, wait, it's too soon, it's going to hurt, I know it's going to. Kind of squatting over his penis, I could feel the tip of his erection on my ass. I could hardly contain my excitement. I asked my lover to be gentle and start out slowly. As I regained control of my lower body, I began to gently rock my ass so I could feel my partners penis titillating me from the inside. Here I attempt to will share as much of what my first experiences were like for me, though it is not possible to adequately capture the experiences in words.