When I got my divorce from my american ex-wife, I realized quickly that I am stuck with dating western women. If you have a white woman as a girlfriend or wife, then here are some reasons why white women fall for the tall, dark and handsome Indian men. I hate that they assume all brown skin people are the same. If you don't want to be overlooked, do something about it. Yes Indian parents can be ughh about accepting white guys primarily because of cultural differences. I mean, I would assume that a 32 year old woman wasn't a virgin.
The second thing that happened really took me by surprise. A woman who's culture has her? Plus the fact that she is madly in love with Indian culture more so than I am into Indian culture allows us to meet at the East-West cross-roads where the sunsets are better! Surely you don't want to be judged for the colour of you skin any more than other posters should for the size of their waist of the size of their chest? One of the oldest cultures and religion and 50 countries in one and so many varieties of tasty foods and spices. Here are some logical answers. Like Bernard, the guys I've dated have all had wild aspirations. I just wanted to make things clear I didn't sleep around. I also live in a diverse metropolitan area with large exposure to many cultures.
Here is an OkCupid check out their blog, they are amazing at throwing these racial prejudices like this out in the open graph detailing the reply back rates a very good proxy for acceptance or desirability for male senders from female recipients. A good caucasian daughter will be graduating from graduate school, earning and living in a career, and taking care of the husband and children. And I'll tell you this: I'm certainly not the only girl who struggles with cultural identity and self-acceptance. The white guys I dated were often encouraged to be themselves growing up. In America, girls do often lose their virginity before marriage, but its actually the opposite in india. However I would not consider a woman who cared that deeply what others thought of her social status as 'marriage material'.
And please be honest with me on your opinions of dating an Indian woman. Dont give all your shit at once,let her discover you as youre going to discover her. Your obsession is not with falling in love, having a great long-term relationship, etc. Even with my more progressive friends it began slowly at first, when I was 27. A male reader, , writes 27 August 2015 : Indian girls have lots of nice qualities.
I am an indian woman and met a gorgeous blond, blue eyes, 6ft tall etc. You are allowed to like whatever you like. I spoke to her dad also on various occasions. Then 10 min later I wanted to speak to her again, it seemed she backed off. I am not sure I have ever seen such a collection of beautiful women in my life before or since! This thread is an interesting read. But I look down on them for their immaturity and ignorance. There are plenty of people that get married in their 30's and have children.
I also live in East Asia where they have similar points of view in terms of marriage. They usually had familial support to pursue their dreams. As to your question about skin tone, I find the duskier Indian girls every bit as attractive, if not more in some cases. If you are white, you don't even have to try to impress your gf brah. If you lived in India you would know this. A lot of Indian men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our Indian women. Long, beautiful dark hair like latinas; curves like black women; beautiful eyes and well-defined facial features like white women; skin tone neither too light nor too dark -- just perfectly brown! You have a serious issues with your self esteem and confidence ,women can detect that.
But I want to say that if the girl is beautiful, polite, clean in her behavior nobody can help falling for her. Personally, I couldn't be with a woman who was using me to get married as an obligation, and who doesn't really have deep feelings for me. Now the problem I ran into was her mom is very traditional, and would not accept me as a foreigner and moreover a white guy. A female reader, anonymous, writes 21 April 2009 : I suspect that this question would be rather controversial the other way round- anonymous summed it up very well; You have to look at the individual person. The most attractive thing about a white guy is his attitude towards women. Like it or Not this is how 95% of East Indian Women Feel…It is Time that East Indian Men Wake up and Broaden their Horizons many have had better looking and better Relations when they Upgrade to an African-American Woman and they are Loyal and will take up for you.
I am sorry you had to experience this awful scenario but hopefully, your experiences have been wonderful! This is why you suck with women, not because of race. . Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? If she likes you too things would work out fine. However, I would challenge that norm. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful Indian men date white women. In india it's different, virginity for women is considered normal and they wont give it up b4 marriage. This is a red flag for most men, not just Indian men.
I have very happy memories from that time. So there tends to be hang ups and insecurity associated with the female gender in a lot of non-white cultures. Lets be real, is your personality welcoming and interesting? My Indian friends have daughters, towards some of whom my sons are attracted. Totally agree with TheBlindCat here, though. From your post, it seems like you can't live without her, and she can't live without her family.