She is super vulnerable and has bared a big part of her soul to you, so to speak. There are lots of articles about how to spank safely, reading a bunch of them will give you a little more knowledge and peace of mind that you won't be injuring her. But pleasing is a two-way thing in marriage, and nobody should feel forced to do something they genuinely find distasteful. Allen was tall and muscular, a martial artist, and clearly an alpha male. But I would do it if I loved her. My jeans are women's jeans and my dress pants are women's and she make me wear leggings out in public and takes me to her aerobics class in a leotard and tights. Remember, it's important to her in a way that she probably can't even fully articulate until after you've tried it a bit.
I can only base my opinion on how she feels on my limited information reflect a lack of emotional communication between the two of you, and I highly suspect that she needs and desires this, not only verbal communication, but also the complex communication that would occur were you to spank her. She screamed with pleasure a couple of times and I felt her juice wet my fingers as I played with her clit. So when I got her to let me take complete control with these spankings and she received so much pleasure from it, she began to be to be more relaxed about other aspects in our life. This was much to the amusement and delight of Carol, who became more and more 'superior'and aggressive as the day went on. I complained to my wife but she Said the girls can do as they want. While we of course from time to time, it's always incredibly hot to see our guy take command in the bedroom.
It's extremely embarrassing but also exciting Anonymous My wife was reluctant to spank me in the beginning of our relationship, but she has since turned into a very strict woman, when it comes to my spankings. Act like a child, get treated as such and she will continue to put me across her lap each time I mess up. Don't know why women wish to be spanked, but I will do anything to make her happy. A lot of people think the Christian Domestic Discipline lifestyle is abusive. In hurting her, I would also be hurting myself.
She pushed until I eventually spanked her for her slip up. But he is doing it because he loves me and because he knows it helps me. Unbidden, she took off her beer-drenched shirt, displaying her breasts, and handed it to him in submission. There are so many different reasons people are into spanking, but for your wife, it appears to be less about discipline, and almost entirely about her wanting an even stronger bond with you. I know that I love it when my boyfriend can give that to me. Jane did as she was told and lifted her ass up. It will be interesting for everyone to read.
And spanking can nurture trust if both parties are receptive and willing. She also used to challenge me on so many things; now, not so much. She thinks that it will nurture mutual trust, and she thinks that the spanking will give her physical and psychological pleasure. My wife dressed me as a cheerleader for her friend's costume party. I wouldn't want my husband doing something to me that he really hated doing, and that made him feel bad. Karen said she had never done that. I then showed her the hairbrush, a gift from your mother I said.
Bringing it up with people you don't know are cool about it will only cause you grief. As she slowly stroked me she told me that she was in control tonight and that I would have to do exactly as she commanded. It takes a lot of trust to obey and let go, allowing someone else to have complete control over a situation and your bared bottom! Spank her as hard as you feel comfortable with, and no more. . After twenty or so slaps, she was mindlessly humping the diving board, her reddened ass jiggling up and down. I perceived that the comments I do not know exactly how my wife feels.
I could have about died of embarrassment. Also, seriously, you are asking how should you spank her? Spankings can be playful to satisfy a craving, or involve ideas of loving domestic discipline. Her face went all red, but much to my surprise she pulled her jeans down to her knees and stood there like a naughty little brat, knowing that her bottom deserved the blistering it was about to receive. It gives her an emotional release. With that I was left sitting by my self wondering if maybe he wasn't right.
I decided that in addition to any discipline that was warranted, my wife will be getting a spanking once a week for awhile to get her used to it, keep her in line and remind her of what she'll get when she does act up. He also told me about his own relationship and how he and his wife had a domestic agreement and that if she got out of line she could fully expect a real bare bottom spanking. I work as a personal trainer and that involves wearing tights and leggings. Physical discipline is never a good replacement for communicating about problems, and it wont make the issues go away. Any time my wife gets out of line now, she knows what to expect and I'm sure that sometimes she misbehaves on purpose. We discuss the unexpected benefits of erotic spanking that can totally transform your life. Well when my wife got home the girls told her about my little trick and became instantly furious, She took me by the ear and marched me in to our bedroom.
I went down the street to a small local bar. In her mind, I wouldn't be hurting her. The girl I'm seeing likes me in tights and she's admitted to me that she doesn't exactly dread it when she paddles my buttie. The problem was that Jane had become so pessimistic and scathingly sarcastic that I found myself becoming more and more annoyed by her attitude. Anonymous My spankings from my wife usually start after I have been lectured as she takes my trousers and underpants off! I get the feeling that you're not against spanking per se, but against spanking her as hard as she wants. As long as your actions remain safe and consensual, and as long as you are in constant, honest communication about them, this can be a very satisfying dynamic. I reach my hand down into her hair and grab a handful of her dark hair, jerking her head back firmly as I speak in a deep firm voice, in a tone that can't be disobeyed, Tell me to please spank you harder, because you're a dirty slut who needs to be punished.
Jane would never go for such a thing. She insists on examining my botom cleft to check where they have struck! I held her down and with out any hesitation I began spanking that spoiled round ass. She was scared of the punishment but we had agreed that there would be a corrective action. You're welcome to stay and watch if you like, if not I understand. I get corner time, I have had my mouth washed out with soap, she is in charge and for the sake of my bottom I try to be good. That's common, in my experience.