So I went in search and discovered everything I have ever believed about women is wrong. But I agree with every single word you said in your article. And thank-you for the kind words! Her mask might blend into the background. It caused a lot of shit in our marriage. A sexy mind with an decent appearance trumps a smoking-hot appearance with an okay sexy mind. In other words, having a sexy mind makes you sexier than your mentally unsexy friends. Tell me if you agree or disagree.
This teases her, and turns her mind on even more. If she goes to sleep, it means she has invested at least a little trust in you. Turn on her mind, and her body will follow. They may not choose to have random sex, but choice should be personal. I hope this blog falls into that last category. The walls of the rectum are not made the same and can easily tear.
Sometimes we also end up with someone who might not fit us 100% sexually. Sex is not something to practice with other people before marriage. You are pretending to be someone you actually are not- only to get into someones pants or lets say spend time with them. So, orgasms are cool but even more important to having great sex: paying attention to the way her body responds moment-to-moment, rapport, making her feel beautiful and liked as a human being. Treat them like queens out of the bedroom and own them like whores in the sack. I wouldnt want such man to be my husband or boyfriend despite the fact that I am attracted to them.
No matter what I wear , I end up looking decent at best. I have had plenty of experiences where a woman initiated the experience granted, only one when this was also the first time! I feel like guys dont want to trouble themselves by going after apparently shy or uninterested girls. I agree with this because I can't just turn over and sleep knowing I have mud on my helm. Thank-you so much for your excellent comment! Vaginas are cleaner and I don't mind having vaginal fluids on my penis as opposed to having feces. Jeez, no wonder the sex is great! They should genuinely want to be with the person and not use that interaction as a tool to improve their success rate or give boost to their egos! But relaxing her lower body goes a loooong way to relaxing her whole body. I so desperately want to be fucked and cared for. Also, the vagina is made for the pounding of the penis - the muscles, the secretions, etc.
That can be solved by building trust,make big friends with her,communicate and let her talk most, she will surprise you by showing to you how she liked sex and how she had starved. I also liked what you said about wanting to be fucked but also needing to feel cared for, safe, and to have an emotional connection. However after learning the art, some use the knowledge for ego reasons. And, no matter what, it makes me feel like I have to poop and pooping on my lover isn't something I want to do. Make her feel comfortable letting go and being so sexual with you. So, I wonder if you could invite him to watch porn together. It has to exist some sort of connection.
And whats even more frustraing is the fact that I am attracted to the pua playboy type guys, never dated someone like that in real though. You should have been done in your mid teens like most girls. Her va-jay-jay comes in third place. Ignore unhappy fucks like Harry. They have not a clue that there is any connection between relieving their sex urge and procreation. Ride them hard and put them up wet.
I felt so trapped most of my life, policed and shamed over my sexuality constantly and I never got to explore it. She pretty much blows me on demand in bed and I am still pushing the envelope with her. Let me agree with you on the point of expression of sexual desires by a woman. With that said, let me respond to some of the stereotypes of puas that you hinted at. Maybe after watching a video you picked, your husband might have a visual to model himself after. Warmed up with a little alcohol, not enough to get really drunk and sloppy, just enough to loosen up her inhibitions. So, you never have to talk a woman into sex.
I have only one problem with puas: why do they sleep with random women? Before pickup, I was frustrated because I was overlooked by girls so much. Wow, how did you as a man just explain how I as a woman feels deep down about sex? For example: smiling, looking presentable, making strong eye contact. My Amazing Hot Wife and I have been together for 9+ years. When you are about to fall asleep, just put your wrist between her breasts. So, spend time exploring her skin all over before touching her sexual bits and pieces.
As an over 40 yr old woman I can give you my opinion. The vagina, while it can tear during rough sex, is made to withstand it. When I learned pickup I learned to bring out my persona. And thank-you for your kind words. I usually achieve this by giving her enough hints that I am popular with women not by intent, but just as it naturally happens in conversations and she quickly jumps to her own conclusions and attempts to prove herself to be better. One other reason for this might be because part of turning a woman on is desiring her. You might allow him to pick a porn to watch, then show him one that turns you on.